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Chances are you’ve spent time outdoors and noticed a positive feeling afterward. Maybe it was an afternoon at the lake, a long walk in a nature preserve, or even just an evening sitting outdoors in a shady, green yard.

Feeling better after time in nature is not just your imagination. Spending time outdoors is proven to provide vital mood-boosting and calming effects on the brain.

The way we live in the modern world is a very recent occurrence. For millennia, humans did not live the way most of us live now. Urban settings, with their noise, crowding, pollution, and lack of outdoor time and manual work, are not the brain’s natural habitat.

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The holidays. From TV shows to feature films to stand-up punch lines to more memes than we can count—the holidays are exposed for the mixed bag they genuinely are.

One of the many tricky aspects of this time of year revolves around our eating habits. For some reason, we have all swallowed (in more ways than one) the whole overeating thing.

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There’s an old saying about being your own worst enemy, and there’s plenty of truth to that. We tend to be our harshest critics. Sometimes, silencing that negative self-talk can be hard to do. 

We also live in a world where things such as social media make it easy to compare ourselves to others. It’s bad enough to see models and celebrities with “perfect” bodies, but when you start to see people in your own life with a body to envy, that negative perception of yourself can get even worse. 

That’s why developing a positive body image is so important. Not only will it boost your self-esteem, but learning to love your own body can help you on your journey toward loving yourself, as a whole. 

With that in mind, let’s look at 10 steps you can start putting into practice to love your body from head to toe. 

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If you are like many other Americans, you are probably not a morning person. So, when you struggle to get up and get going early in the day or find yourself hitting the snooze button a dozen times, your morning routine could use a bit of a makeover.

While it’s true that not everyone can naturally be a morning person, everyone can learn to make the most of their mornings and start the day off on a healthier, more positive note.

Creating a healthy morning routine takes time and practice, but you will find the results are well worth the effort.

For healthier and happier mornings, consider adding some of these great habits to your routine.

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As our world becomes increasingly more digital, more and more people find themselves struggling with social anxiety.

At first, it may seem counterintuitive for technology that encourages interaction to lead to a reduced ability to actually communicate.

When viewed more critically, however, the relationship makes perfect sense. The more time we spend in front of our screens and hiding behind our online profiles, the farther away from real communications we move. 

The link between social anxiety and communication technology is actually very strong. If we are to understand this link, we must first recognize how technology has reshaped our communication behaviors. 

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Have you ever experienced an extreme, overwhelming fear that changed the way you lived your life?

Severe, irrational fears or aversions that cause feelings of extreme panic or terror are known as phobias.

Phobias are considered mental disorders and are much more serious than average or temporary fears. People who suffer from phobias are unable to function normally when confronted with their particular phobia. Additionally, they will often go to great lengths to avoid any type of contact with the object of their phobia.

If your fears have dictated your daily routine or choices, you may be suffering from a phobia.

Here are a few of the most common phobias.

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People often associate being assertive with something negative.

Or they’re worried being more assertive might make them appear too aggressive.

It’s true that there’s a fine line between being assertive and being too straightforward. But you also don’t want to be meek and timid.

There are many benefits to being more assertive. In fact, it can make a big difference when it comes to reaching your goals in life. Whether you’re looking for that big promotion at work, or you want something different for your love life, being assertive can make all the difference.

Let’s take a look at some of the additional benefits, and how you can use assertiveness to your advantage.

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“I hate my job!”

It’s a sentiment that’s more common than you realize.

Going to work can feel like such a chore.

You just don’t have any passion for it. It’s hard to not have a short fuse when everyone else is incompetent. Or the new system the boss is implementing isn’t going to work, and you know it.

If you are struggling with job satisfaction, perhaps it’s time to take a step back and work on your own personal development. You may be surprised how it can actually help you have a better experience at work.

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It’s easy to joke around about perfectionism or having high standards. But, for some people, the desire to be a “perfect” person can lead to anxiety, panic, and depression.

Perfectionism is a type of personality trait that can really be damaging when it gets out of control. Not only do you feel the need to be flawless in all you do, but it leads to an additional need for others to accept you.

In some cases, perfectionism isn’t a bad thing. People who have this trait are often very driven and motivated. They have a deep desire to succeed.

Unfortunately, there’s a downside to this character trait, too. When unchallenged, perfectionism and anxiety often go hand-in-hand.

Thankfully, you can learn to relax and still do your best while easing your worries.

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Eating healthy during the holidays is a concern on most of our minds this time of year.

As the weather turns chilly and the leaves start to fall, many of us shift into a sort of hibernation mode.

Unlike a drowsy grizzly bear—whom nature has actually granted with a hefty winter sleep—you likely still have to go to work, care for the family, and attend holiday get-togethers.

At these aforementioned holiday events is when the eating problems commonly arise. After all, with such an array of deliciousness, how can you not taste it all?

Here are a few seasonal tips to eating healthy during the holidays.

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For many people, the holiday season can bring a mix of emotions.

In fact, feeling depressed or anxious is not uncommon in the least bit. It can get tricky to keep levels of anxiety low in the midst of the seasonal hustle and bustle.

Experiencing your own unique hodgepodge of emotions may have caught you off-guard. Or perhaps you’ve been dreading the holiday stress since May.

No matter what your situation, consider these practical tips to keep levels of anxiety low.

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When you’re afraid of relationships, there’s usually a good reason. Perhaps you were hurt, scared of being tied down, or are simply tired of trying so hard without your efforts being reciprocated.

These are all valid reasons to be skittish about romance. After all, love is a big deal. And so are your emotions, for that matter.

Most people will tell you that you just need to dive in, facing your fears. They say it will all work out.

Except… that it won’t.

You may even unknowingly sabotage your own relationship.

So, before diving in head first, consider these tips for overcoming your own insecurity.

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If someone advised you to exercise for anxiety relief, would you take it as a candy-coated hint to workout?

After all, getting into shape is the new cool trend.

Here’s the thing about using exercise for anxiety relief—there’s actually a science to it.

Maybe getting into shape should be on your to-do list. It should be on mine, too. But not just to make friends with the scale. More than anything, it helps to relieve anxiety symptoms like shakiness, muscle tension, and shortness of breath, to name a few.

Exercise can even help you to react differently to anxiety. Here’s how it works.

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For some, looking into the mirror is an unpleasant experience.

Perhaps an inadequate reflection stares back at you when you look in your mirror at home.

Struggling with body image issues has a way of getting you down. Not only can you feel your self-esteem plummet but all those tiny imperfections you see often become insurmountable.

Despite appearing externally healthy to others, you may feel like a huge spotlight is shining on things you’d love to change about yourself. In fact, at times, you are likely overwhelmed with the feeling of never being enough.

When body image issues overwhelm you, here are a few tips on how taking care of yourself will keep your self-esteem from taking a nose dive.

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Jumping headfirst into an unknown body of water seems a little extreme,  right?

And you’re right. It is extreme.

Even more so, it’s unhealthy. You have no idea what to expect when you hit the water. Something surprising might be in there turning the calm-looking water into an unexpected challenge.

Looking for anxiety relief, many people dive in headfirst when it comes to taking anti-anxiety medication. But, sadly, like the diving scenario, that approach is extreme and unhealthy.

It’s important to cover your bases before opting for medication!

Here are 10 questions to start you out on the right foot.

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For those who suffer from them, panic attacks can be a scary and debilitating experience.

They may strike at any moment, making it very difficult to have a semblance of a normal life.

If this sounds like you, it’s important you learn more, understanding panic attacks and what to do about them.

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During a remodel, your home goes from being your safe haven to a building site.

Although you’re probably really looking forward to the finished project, the process might feel rather intrusive.

From drywall dust to budgeting concerns and everything in between, keeping your cool might prove to be difficult during remodeling. Even more than squeezing every last penny out of your budget, you might be searching for stress busters to maintain your calm.

Here are a few tips to help you get through the remodeling process and keep your nerves from fraying.

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The pounding in your chest, shallow breathing, racing heartbeat—it all happens so quickly.

Before you know it, you’re facing a full-blown anxiety attack.

But, what if you could stop an anxiety attack before it ever happened?

The good news is that there are proven methods to actually stop an anxiety attack in its tracks.

One of the biggest keys to managing anxiety is understanding what it actually does to your body. Understanding this is like gaining an inside peek at your enemies battle plans.

Here are five helpful ways to use that insight to combat anxiety.

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In every relationship, whether personal or professional, two main goals should exist:

1. Manage the conflict
2. Maintain the connection

Granted, both are easier said than done, but you can accomplish them successfully with the right stress management strategies.

After all, stress is often the culprit when it comes to creating problems. So, when you understand how to manage the stress in your life, you tend to experience more peace and less conflict.

Stress management isn’t complicated. Rather, it has a lot to do with where you focus.

So, how do you implement stress management strategies in your own life?

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If you want to be unhappy, spend more time comparing yourself to others. But even those of us who consciously avoid the comparison trap may find ourselves falling into it.

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